Judgemental.Hello, i'm blogging today. Yeah it's about how people judge and how a person feel when he/she is being judged.
Yes, everybody judge, so do me but do you ever know how much it hurts being judge at? Everybody have different characteristics, and of course nobody is perfect. People judge on how you look, how you wear, how you are.
Everybody change, so do I. Teenagers like me starts to get vain and starts to doll up themselves, having make ups on and changing the way they dress. People may say "Hey, she doesn't knows how to make up" "Ew, where the style?" etc kind of mean comments, but do you know how much it hurts hearing those nasty comments from others when they are just trying to be pretty and all? Like you, everybody wants to be pretty. Why don't you give them a chance to show off their beauty? It's real easy to lose self esteem than losing it. After commenting on someone, people tend to start rumors and badmouthing, telling facts that aren't even true. Have you understand that person you're judging? Do you know the person you are commenting on? Do you even know how they feel? If you don't please stop judging, you wouldn't know how they feel, there's many reasons behind their changes. Maybe it's because they want to make more friends or they just want to be pretty like most of the girls around? You wouldn't know because you are not them. Do you know, over judging causes them to lose self confidence. Always put yourself into other's shoes. If a person goes "Hey, look at her dress, it's so outdated lor" what will you feel if you did many things and took up many courage to wear that dress and someone came commenting on it? Do it feel good? Will you still want to go out with that dress or will you even want to step out of the house with your new looks? Maybe some will say they don't care, but i'm sure deep down you felt hurt, hurt not because you don't look good, but hurt because others are not able to adapt your new looks.
So, i have been telling myself to stop judging because i'm not perfect, neither do everyone, or maybe once or twice just between 3 or less people or maybe you could politely tell them they don't look good in the new look, i guess they would understand more and not get hurt. I've been judged before, so i know how it feels like. People talking behind your back, telling others thing that is not true. You could talk to someone you trust about it or maybe confront those people that talked about you. Make things clear, it's much more better then suffering alone.
& yes have you judged anyone or have been judged before, and maybe you would understand how it feels, so quit giving nasty comment. I'll be posting soon yo! Seeya soon!
